mia, 4 months ago

@Arcana i only really want to live with one person at a time, but that's a lot to due with my childhood and not whether i could fill a big home. im sure i could fill a 10 room though, just would feel superfluous to me, someone who is used to living in a studio

Arcana, 4 months ago

@mia I don't necessarily think superfluous is a bad thing. Ultimately, wanting a lot isn't something people should be ashamed of I think, having things can be very nice.

I do also like the idea of living in essentially a village home type situation with a bunch of people I'm close to, much like how castles would have been maintained in the past, so that certainly makes the space more of a requirement I'd say

marine, 4 months ago

@Arcana the problem with poly shit is frequently, they're unattractive either physically or emotionally so no one wants to be around them except for a select few people.

eris, 4 months ago

@marine @Arcana tbh a lot of people I've been attracted to have been poly

It's honestly unfortunate because it's not something I'd be comfortable with so I end up losing out on some hot partners.