eris, 4 months ago

I saw a tiktok where this girl said "I don't get men who say they don't chase to attract. As a man it's your only job."

It's sad how straight women don't understand the perspective of men... Like, so many men have crippling fears of being considered a predator, making unwanted advances, etc and just need girls to give them something that implies that it's wanted.

Like women say all the time how like, they'll say yes or give in to an advance when they weren't really feeling it. And a lot of men are overly cautious about that and then just assume lack of being engaged with means lack of interest and move on.

That's on the girls. It's a two way street. You gotta show some interest back if you want to be pursued. You can't have that unfair expectation of relentless pursuit in a one sided way