society has become utterly OBSESSED with the idea that you MUST date or be with somebody your own age, to the point a 30yo can't even date a 20yo without raising questions
it wasn't always this way, of course. this is really recent in the grand scheme of history, folks used to not care so much. so i ask, where did this come from? society seems to be trying too hard to backstep away from self-perceived problems with age gaps - they aren't always the result of abuse of power. i'd even argue that most of the time they aren't, they're just two people trying something out.
