@Dan_Hulson@justnormalkorean@Owl@Dudebro@Ravana@Xenophon i don't remember your advice but i obviously didn't agree with it at the time, i've done fine for myself, you know i'm in a period of upheaval due to family dying and dealing with the aftermath of that has taken months, and my own life will finally go back on track in yet more months, that's really the only thing making me unhappy right now at all.