@Kyou@nugger There is a difference between a female taking the lead and femdom. That's like saying pegging is straight sex because it involves a man and a woman.
@Kyou@nugger A woman taking the lead in bed because you love and trust each other? That's femdom. A woman in the cowgirl position? That's soft femdom. Has a woman ever done something to your benifit that was done without your explicit permission? You better believe that's soft femdom.
@graf I set mine to pseudo high after tweeking it and turning off some options. You'll know if it's too much if you get to the main city and your computer combusts.