i've disappeared for weeks and virtually nobody asked. my supposed friends might or might not notice because the server maid account stopped responding, but certainly not because they message me to chat or anything.
family would first find something to complain about (because that's all life is now; hello good morning the floor is dirty / take out the trash / ugh you didn't do this nag i just came up with), they might take about 8-12 thinking i'm asleep, probably peek in eventually to complain about something.
i think you overestimate how much people actually care that i exist :blobcatadorable: