@ashten people can be complex creatures. this is usually a good thing :blobcatmelt:
i wouldn't worry about the unreasonable people. they run an 'all or nothing politics all the time' game. trying to appease them will only end in suffering. and these people see dog whistles everywhere like they do nothing else but study ways to get offended.
try to be decent when you can. it's the only thing we can really do.