This isn't a callout, more a subtle problem I've seen in queer/t4t/lesbian spaces. They tend to really look down on people who are attracted to men, especially cishet men, because of their own personal baggage with specific cishet men.
I know for me, discovering my bisexuality was about unpacking compulsive queerness; being surrounded by mostly lesbian transfems does weird stuff to one's brain. Yes I am actually attracted to men. No that's not a bad thing and I shouldn't feel weird about it. I can be queer in a straight relationship and its honestly really validating (trans-wise) when it happens. Bi/Pan is just as valid a sexuality as lesbian/straight :heart_bi: :heart_pan:
