There are a LOT more things I could have tried but we reached the point where I'd rather mercy kill the server and start with a tiny database and no connections.
@quad@Moon I wonder if that was a problem related to psql or pleroma. I usually hear online of how good and reliable psql is but what happen on weeaboo, spc and others happens every now and then
I think I've definitely switched teams to the so called "immutable" distros. They just work (tm), except when they don't, but that's besides the point. They are so easy to set up, and I truly think that this idea of letting the distro set up your partitions is the best way to go about it. You want to "dual boot"? Buy another HDD/SSD/etc, chud, stop being poor. Everything else is also seamless for the most part, and despite its short comings I think Flatpak might truly be the best option for regular user-facing programs, and for any other case Distrobox with your meme le haxor distro of choice is good enough.
@Kerosene I tried to use nixOs but it's so much work to make it work with a laptop with no-video, setup it properly with all my customizations and packages.
I imagine that after I setup everything it's great because it just works but to get there is too much work